sexy wife seduces husband's friendI have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I love him and I know he loves me and we have both been monogamous since we started dating 11 years ago. Prior to meeting my husband, I had had several sexual partners, both men and women. I love having sex. Even when I did have an orgasm from having sex, I still loved the act of having sex and the passion and emotion involved.

I just turned 35 and I am starting to have overwhelming feelings that I want to have sex with other people. When my husband and I have sex, it is fantastic and I almost always have at least one orgasm. But I desperately miss that overwhelming feeling of passion that comes with having sex with someone new.

My husband’s best friend just moved back to town and we have always had a flirty relationship. But since I have been seeing him more and more lately, my feelings for him have turned sexual. I am not sure if the feeling is mutual. We continue to flirt and the flirting gets more and more sexual, but the other night when I was at his house he said something sexual to me and I said something back. He laughted and told me that I was a “good sport”. I was like “huh?”. Does that mean that his flirting is not serious? I am confused…When I am around him he has started to touch me casually more and more which I thought was his signal to me that he is interested, but after that “good sport” comment I have no idea what to think. I was ready to confess to my husband that I was having sexual feelings toward his friend, but now I don’t know what to do.
Also, when we were at his house the other night my husband left at one point to go get something. Friend and I were alone in his apartment for about 15 minutes. He immediately went into the other room, which I thought might be a sign that he didn’t want to be left alone in the same room with me so something wouldn’t happen.
I have dreams about him at night that are very sexually graphic and I really believe that if I was left alone with him and he made a move on me I would not be able to say NO.
I don’t want to break up my family over sex, but I also can’t ignore the deep feelings and longings that I am experiencing.
What should I do? How do I know if the feeling is mutual? I am confused…

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*

2 Comments

  • Married in SC 8 years ago

    The sensation of a strangers skin against yours after being with the same person for so many years is beyond pleasure.
    My perverted suggestion is just that. Make it a stranger and not someone as close to you as this guy is. Make it physical and anonymous. It’s just as good, if not better, than with someone who could potentially wreck your life.

  • mindie D 4 years ago

    I am also married with 2 children, now in teens. I cheat about 3 or 4 times a year with strangers and the sex is usually incredible. I fantasize about it when my husband is not home and have a great masturbation session. Yet, I love my husband and our sex is ok, but frequent. I’m guessing many share our feelings.